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Keeping the fires lit

By Ken / September 22, 2022 /

My adrenaline is pumping again. A surge courses through when Denise and I feel uplifted by many helping hands and strong hearts. There’s a renewal of energy as this fall begins. Part of which infuses the community event our nonprofit will hold on Saturday October 1, the Hope Floats Memory Walk.  A gathering of several…

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Slivers of reception

By Ken / May 4, 2022 / Comments Off on Slivers of reception

“Do not fear to hope.” It sounds so straightforward. As if we don’t need a reminder of this intuitive wisdom.  Yet we do from time to time. Layers of fears can hold us back—from reconciling with friends or relatives, from shifting a career, to deconstructing why one’s purpose in life feels washed out. The barriers…

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The luminaries among us

By Ken / March 3, 2022 /

A community lifting others up continues to bring light What a rollercoaster these past two years have been. Flung around sharp bends and suddenly pitched downwards, it feels like we’ve been on a collision course on so many levels. We’ve tried to endure the toll of Covid 19 variants, the strain of loneliness, the negative…

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Summer revels and restoration

By Ken / July 20, 2021 /

How do we make this an amazing day?   Lately I’ve tried to begin each morning doing one simple, positive thing. It may be thinking of a family member in distress. Perhaps writing down a clarifying thought. Pausing to be more grounded before I start with the lists, or reading news that often spirals into a…

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No return to normal

By Ken / April 26, 2021 /

As I sat down to get my first vaccination, gut-churning guitar chords and Ozzy Osbourne’s nasal rant blasted a crowded former showroom floor. Black Sabbath’s “Iron Man.” Classic. Spine-crushing. And somehow so apropos. “Has he lost his mind? Can he see or is he blind?” Gone are the days when we don’t see each other’s…

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Alone without beliefs

By Ken / December 11, 2020 / Comments Off on Alone without beliefs

The fragmentation of 2020 is stunning. On so many levels, the divides between us have never felt so wide, and so freshening. Some say rifts have been lying in waiting, disparities re-exposed by the pandemic and much more. It seems to go even deeper than that as we hunker down for a dark winter with…

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Six weeks of hell

By Ken / September 24, 2020 /

If unity and empathy are out the window, where are we heading? Rattled, I dread the run-up to November.  Every day there is more division, whenever we turn around or check our news feed. Anxieties and dysfunction are stoked. Last night it was dismay over the one indictment returned for the shooting of Breonna Taylor—#SayHerName—coupled…

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A six-week pressure cooker

By Ken / April 24, 2020 /

Rain is beating down again; it feels like a deluge every third day now. Six weeks of temporary ups and steep downturns, exacerbated in so many ways. Where are you in this storm? How are you navigating the isolation—unable to be with loved ones, or face to face with people you care about? You may…

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A compassion multiplier

By Ken / March 24, 2020 / Comments Off on A compassion multiplier

That hug from your partner or child never felt better—if you are fortunate enough to have either close by. A friend reaches you on the phone, her laughter breaking your isolation. Colleagues check in, a community scrambles for new ways to support the most vulnerable among us. Our responses to this unprecedented time are vital…

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The Four P’s

By Ken / October 31, 2019 / Comments Off on The Four P’s

Pain. Passion. Purpose. How do we move from experiencing pain, to rediscovering passion, to finding purpose? And going further: Finding peace? How is this possible? What might resolution or even redemption look like? These questions came up earlier this week as I gave a book talk in a neighboring town. My audience was tiny, perhaps…

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